MemberJune 21, 2012 at 9:23 pm51
No question to silly to ask! 🙂
It sounds like there are potentially a couple of things going on. First thing I would work on is your pack structure in section 5 on this site. Sounds like she is bossing you around a little bit. She shouldnt have free access to toys to come and make you play with her. also she should not be telling you its time to go outside, the more you give into that the more she will do it and the worse it will get. When you read the pack structure section and start to implement it, you may run into an extinction spike where it gets worse before it gets better, just stick with it and DO NOT give up. it will get better.
Once that is in place, I would look into restless spirit which is next on the triangle. You have to provide her with an outlet so she doesn’t have to ask for the attention.
Start there and then we can trouble shoot issues afterwards.
Good Luck! Keep us updated.